The power of Humility.
I am sure most Christians hear over and over "Those who humble themselves shall be exulted and those who exult themselves shall be humbled.", While this seems to be a major theme in christianity it seems to be one of the most ignored. No mater what your political/religius standing, I like to look at this statement as more of a philosophical one.
I think the reason why American culture tends to avoid the humility is primarily because we are confused on humility and confuse it with undervaluing your talents. Which isn't true, also idea you loose your humility once you admit that you are humble. Well I will start with the latter being humble is not a destination state but a direction one should go. It is like going West. Just like if I say "I am located West." makes no sense saying "I am humble" Makes no sense. One can be more or less Humble then someone else but one really can't be humble, because there is always a way to go more humble, just as you can always go more West. Secondly being humble is not about undervaluing yourself or your talents, it is about understanding your talents while may great there is always room to improve and never assume that you are always correct.
An example of the opposites. A great violinist is playing in a musical competition, she sees other playing well but she figures that she is so much better then them and failed to listen to their playing. While she played quite well she ended up tying with an other violinist who is 3 years younger then her. She is heart broken she knew to herself that she was the best and now she will need to share the spotlight with someone else who is just as good as her but years younger. In her mind she lost, So she lost in her mind, so by exulting herself she was humbled down a notch. Now the younger player may have been more humble and expected to do well but didn't even dream of getting close to first place so when she did Tie for first she feels extremely honored and felt like she really one. So entering the contest with a humble attitude help her in the end make her feel better.
But there other things by being trying to go humble you end up letting your mind be open to others ideas and not forcing yourself to stick to your own ideas to the point of ruin. Even though american culture doesn't always follow this example and will focus on more esoteric ideas then humility, I myself feel that it is important one to strive for.
I think the reason why American culture tends to avoid the humility is primarily because we are confused on humility and confuse it with undervaluing your talents. Which isn't true, also idea you loose your humility once you admit that you are humble. Well I will start with the latter being humble is not a destination state but a direction one should go. It is like going West. Just like if I say "I am located West." makes no sense saying "I am humble" Makes no sense. One can be more or less Humble then someone else but one really can't be humble, because there is always a way to go more humble, just as you can always go more West. Secondly being humble is not about undervaluing yourself or your talents, it is about understanding your talents while may great there is always room to improve and never assume that you are always correct.
An example of the opposites. A great violinist is playing in a musical competition, she sees other playing well but she figures that she is so much better then them and failed to listen to their playing. While she played quite well she ended up tying with an other violinist who is 3 years younger then her. She is heart broken she knew to herself that she was the best and now she will need to share the spotlight with someone else who is just as good as her but years younger. In her mind she lost, So she lost in her mind, so by exulting herself she was humbled down a notch. Now the younger player may have been more humble and expected to do well but didn't even dream of getting close to first place so when she did Tie for first she feels extremely honored and felt like she really one. So entering the contest with a humble attitude help her in the end make her feel better.
But there other things by being trying to go humble you end up letting your mind be open to others ideas and not forcing yourself to stick to your own ideas to the point of ruin. Even though american culture doesn't always follow this example and will focus on more esoteric ideas then humility, I myself feel that it is important one to strive for.
